This works on Women AND on Men.

Too many people are afraid of what others think of them.  Sure it's important for others to think nice things of you.  Why do they?  It's because of your actions.  Don't let your actions fool others.

Self control is one of the most important lessons you'll learn in life.  Like when you first were learning to ride a bicycle.  You were excited and thought you could ride away.  You also probably crashed during that ride too.

It's good to go in with a game plan, everything else follows suit.  Granted you have self control.

If I'm going out with a girl I ask myself a few questions:

How did our relationship begin?
How interested am I in her and why?
How interested is she and why?
What type of situation is it going to be (casual, dating, friends)?
What is our common ground?

This small assessment takes a few seconds and provides me with the direction I need.

Now, it's also about compromise.  I'll buy us a drink, you buy us a drink. 50/50.  If she giving 30%, she's not for me.  I make sure to practice what I preach.  I'm all about equal effort and keeping it spicy, simple, and fun.

It's about giving and mirroring.  If I'm excited and smiling about something, chances are you'll be too.  If I'm pissed and negative, it's probably not going to get you excited and smiling.

My point:  Radiate positive energy, have a plan, be honest, and stick to it!  It all goes back to Simple and Fun.   People will respect you, especially those you are trying to date.

Remember the saying "It's the SIMPLE things in life".

50% Logic, 50% Emotion.  If it doesn't make sense, it's most likely not going to feel right.

 TRUE TRUE TRUE!


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Keep it SIMPLE and FUN.

In the world of dating LESS is MORE.

We were grabbing some lunch on Monday at Panera.  After we got our food, I told her to find and pick a table she wanted to sit at.  As she was leading us through the place me following her, I thought it would be funny to secretly make a left turn and go sit outside in the sun and enjoy my lunch. I did.

What makes this magical to women?  As the man I decided to go about my own way.  I told her to pick a table SHE wanted to sit at.  Heck, on a warm and sunny day, why not indulge outside?  It was funny because wherever she was going to sit, I made sure she was going to see me sitting outside in the warm breeze.

The Response:  As I looked in her general direction, I saw her standing by her table staring at me with a little smile, mouthing "I'm going to "hurt" you.."  So I smiled back and waved her over.  We finished our lunches outside together.  After eating we went back to my car and I opened the door for her.  When I hopped in though, she was looking at me with that same little smile, getting closer to my face and whispering "Im going "kill" you" all while reaching over my lap and shutting my door.

Use your imagination, keep it simple, and fun.  Women love that. 

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